"The purpose of my life is not to get what I want. The purpose of my life is to become who I am." — Cara THEY ONLY EAT THEIR HUSBANDS: Love, Travel, and the Power of Running Away A Memoir by Cara Lopez Lee Conundrum Press The first thing to intrigue me about this book was the title. And it's fun that I can even get the t-shirt. The second thing was the similarity of Cara Lopez Lee's THEY ONLY EAT THEIR HUSBANDS to Elizabeth Gilbert's EAT, PRAY, LOVE. But though the two women are on journeys of self-discovery, their paths are as different as night and day. One was searching for validation; the other was plotting her next escape. Cara Lopez Lee's memoir is brutal, honest, adventurous, and outrageous. Readers will be both intrigued and repelled by her situations and revelations, and yet they won't be able to stop themselves from cheering for this courageous, if misguided, woman in her desperate sear